Thursday, September 26, 2013

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pulau
pasrah
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perasaan
perilaku
peduli

pahala


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makan batin
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Friday, September 20, 2013

Istidraj~







Di pagi yang indah ini..
aku terpanggil untuk menulis berkongsi hal yang aku baru bacanya..

*ajariku apa yang salah..


 Istidraj
Ianya adalah pemberian nikmat Allah kepada manusia yang mana pemberian itu tidak diredhaiNya.
Inilah yang dinamakan istidraj.



Ada orang yang sembahyang 5 waktu sehari semalam, bangun tengah malam bertahajjud, puasa bukan di bulan Ramadhan sahaja, bahkan Isnin, Khamis dan puasa sunat yang lain. Tapi, hidup mereka biasa sahaja. Ada yang susah juga. 
Kenapa? Dan bagaimana pula orang yang seumur hidup tak sembahyang, puasa pun tak pernah, rumahnya tersergam indah, kereta mewah menjalar, duit banyak, dia boleh hidup kaya dan mewah. Bila kita tanya, apa kamu tak takut mati? Katanya, alah, orang lain pun mati juga, kalau masuk neraka, ramai-ramai. Tak kisahlah! Sombongnya mereka, takburnya mereka.

Kita tahu bahawa, sesiapa yang berbuat baik, taat kepada ALLAH akan dipermudahkan jalan kehidupannya, tetapi kita lihat, kawan kita ini tidak solat, tetapi bisnesnya menjadi, kita pula hidup dengan penuh cabaran dan duga. Kita juga tahu bahawa, ISLAM ini agama yang benar, tetapi kita sering melihat orang-orang yang bukan ISLAM itu lebih berjaya, dan ummat ISLAM tertindas dalam kehidupan sempit lagi derita. Kenapa begitu?

Adakah anda tahu apa itu istidraj?

Rasulullah SAW pernah bersabda yang bermaksud: “Apabila kamu melihat bahawa Allah SWT memberikan nikmat kepada hambaNya yang selalu membuat maksiat (dosa) ketahuilah bahawa orang itu telah diistidrajkan oleh Allah SWT”. (Diriwayatkan oleh: At-Tabrani, Ahmad danAl-Baihaqi)

Istidraj ini adalah satu kalimah, yang sering menunjuk kepada keadaan seseorang itu yang terus dilimpahkan rezeki dan kejayaan yang melimpah ruah dalam kehidupannya, walaupun dia bukan hamba ALLAH yang taat, malah seorang pembuat maksiat yang tegar. Kenapa mereka ini dinamakan manusia yang mendapat istidraj?

Istidraj adalah, apabila ALLAH memberikan kejayaan, harta kekayaan, rezeki yang melimpah ruah untuk manusia itu menjadi lebih jauh dariNya.

Biasanya, manusia yang mendapat istidraj ini adalah mereka yang tidak berusaha menjalankan ISLAM dalam kehidupan, juga tidak berusaha mengenali ALLAH SWT.

Contoh manusia yang mendapat istidraj ini banyak. Kita lihat contoh yang mudah. Qarun. Apakah anda kenal kepada Qarun? Dia ini adalah seorang manusia yang teramat kaya. Diriwayatkan bahawa, kotak yang mengisi kunci kepada gedung-gedung perbendaharaannya tidak mampu diangkat oleh orang-orang yang kuat. Hal ini hendak menyatakan betapa kayanya dia.

Kisah Qarun terdapat di dalam Al-Quran. Hartanya melimpah ruah. Segala perniagaannya menjadi. Segala pelaburannya mengembang. Hartanya makin hari makin bertambah, sedang yang bertambah semalam tidak pula luak digunakan.

Tetapi bila Nabi Musa cuba mengingatkannya berkenaan semua kekayaannya itu datang daripada ALLAH, maka Qarun dengan angkuh menjawab,

“ Tidak, semua ini adalah hasil dari ilmuku”

Lihat. Lihat apa kata Qarun. Tidak, semua ini adalah hasil dari… ILMUKU. Dia nyata semakin jauh dari ALLAH, walaupun kekayaannya menjadi, rezekinya melimpah ruah dan sebagainya. Dia saban waktu memperlekehkan pengikut-pengikut nabi Musa yang terdiri dari orang miskin dan hamba.

Apakah pengakhiran Qarun? Dia akhirnya ditenggelamkan ALLAH ke dalam bumi dengan seluruh hartanya. Kisah ini terdapat di dalam Al-Quran.

Nah… Apakah itu yang kita mahu?

Marilah kita berfikir sejenak, apakah yang akan timbul di dalam hati kalian apabila kalian ini jenis yang melazimi dosa-dosa, melakukan maksiat, kemudian kalian berjaya di dalam peperiksaan atau perniagaan. Apakah yang agaknya akan timbul dalam jiwa orang tersebut?

Rasanya, mesti 99% akan merasa begini, “ Tengok, aku tak solat pun berjaya. Siapa kata solat tu bawa kejayaan?”

Apakah yang akan terjadi kepada anda ketika itu? Anda berjaya, tetapi anda semakin jauh dari ALLAH. Itulah istidraj.

Maka janganlah merungut dan gusar bila kita tidak berjaya. Teruskan berusaha dan cuba lagi. Hubungan keimanan kita dengan ALLAH itulah yang perlu dijaga. Jika kita berjaya membina hubungan keimanan yang baik, insyaALLAH, datanglah badai apa sekalipun, kita akan mampu melaluinya.

Sebenarnya ALLAH suka menguji hamba-hambaNya yang beriman. Terdapat lagi satu kisah yang mana:

Terdapat dua orang nelayan. Seorang penyembah berhala, dan seorang lagi muslim yang taat kepada ALLAH. Ketika menebar jala, yang menyembah berhala menyebut nama berhalanya, manakala yang muslim membaca bismillah. Bila jala diangkat, yang menyembah berhala mendapat banyak ikan, manakala yang muslim, hampir sahaja tiada ikan untuknya pada hari itu.

Malaikat yang melihat keadaan itu bertanya kepada ALLAH.

“ Ya ALLAH, apakah yang telah berlaku? HambaMu yang menyekutukanMu, KAU berikan dia rezeki yang banyak, sedangkan hambaMu yang menyebut namaMu, KAU tidak memberikan DIA apa-apa”

ALLAH menjawab,

“ Yang menyekutukanKu, tempatnya memang sudah pasti NERAKA. Maka apalah sangat rezeki yang pasti akan hancur itu jika Kuberikan kepadaNya? Tetapi HambaKu yang beriman itu, AKU hendak mengganjarkanNya syurga, maka AKU suka mengujinya untuk melihat kebenaran imanNya”

Nah, jangan anda kecewa bila diuji, tidak berjaya di dalam peperiksaan walaupun sudah berusaha, gagal dalam perniagaan walaupun kemas menyusun strategi. Itu semua adalah sebahagian dari ujian ALLAH. ALLAH menguji hanya untuk mereka yang dikasihi. Bukankah ALLAH SWT ada berfirman,

“ Apakah kamu mengira KAMI akan membiarkan kamu berkata kami beriman sedangkan kamu belum diuji?…”

Jika gagal terhadap satu-satu perkara, itu perkara itu. Anda masih belum gagal dalam kehidupan. Teruskan usaha, selagi nyawa masih ada. InsyaALLAH ALLAH akan memberikan sesuatu yang bermakna kepada anda. Bersangka baiklah kita kepada PENCIPTA kita.

Maka sebenarnya, bila hidup kita digegarkan dengan masalah, hendaklah kita rasa bersyukur. Tandanya, ALLAH masih lagi dekat dengan kita. Ujian adalah tanda kasih sayang dan perhatianNya kepada kita.

Mustahil kita suka senang sebentar di dunia, di akhirat yang kekal abadi nanti anda merana. Anda mahukan istidraj? Tentunya Tidak Kan..

Rasanya, persolan begini selalu bermain difikiran sesetengah orang. Sebab itulah, muhasabah diri itu penting. Untuk kita sentiasa periksa bagaimanakah hubungan kita dengan ALLAH SWT.

Aku berdosa, tetapi aku berjaya…. Berhati-hatilah kita agar jangan sampai lafaz itu, atau lafaz-lafaz yang membawa maksud serupa itu terkeluar dari mulut kita.
Untuk sama-sama mendapat muhasabah, kadang-kadang terlupa & kurang bersyukur dengan nikmat yang Allah s.w.t. telah berikan.

Subhanallah..Wallahua'lam.

Wednesday, September 18, 2013

Close vs Open



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maaf seandainyaku tidak pandai bersahabat berkawan..
kuhanya Aku seadanya..
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kudibiarkan sendiri..
namun terus mencuba yg terbaik untuk yg terbaik antara kita..
kusedia mendengar luahmu..
maaf pintaku..



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kehadiran tidak diingini..
kewujudan tidak dihargai..
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Sunday, September 15, 2013

CoolDown Silent Killler

#1 Don't Smoke

It's generally best to avoid any and all tobacco products. Cigarettes, chewing tobacco, and snuff are all known to cause cancer in one form or another.

According to the National Cancer Institute, there are 28 different cancer-causing chemicals in smokeless tobacco. These chemicals are known to cause oral, esophageal, and pancreatic cancer. Set that tobacco on fire, and you're inhaling even more carcinogens. If you're a smoker and are ready to quit, there are dozens of organizations across the country that are ready to help.



#2 Protect Yourself from the Sun

If you're going outside, wear some sunscreen. Throw on a hat and some clothes while you're at it!
The melanoma research foundation says that 65% of skin cancers are caused by exposure to ultraviolet radiation. These UV rays aren't just out there when the sun is blazing and the temperature is high; overcast skies often diffuse sunlight, including UV rays, and can cause them to hit you from more angles at once. It's also good to check your skin for abnormalities often, as it's usually the patient who finds melanoma before the doctor does.





#3 Marinate Your Meat


When cooking your grilling or frying meat, it's a good idea to marinate it first. That's because un-marinated meats that are cooked at high temperatures tend to form compounds called heterocyclic amines (HCLs), which are thought to be carcinogenic.
Scientists at the Food Science Institute and Kansas State University conducted an experiment where they marinated several steaks with different marinades, and cooked some without marinating. Those steaks that had been marinated before cooking showed up to 88% less HCLs than those that hadn't.





#4 Take Vitamin D and Calcium Supplements

A 2003 study at Dartmouth Medical School showed that combining vitamin D and calcium supplements reduced the chances of colon and rectal cancers.
The combination works by preventing the development of polyps, which can grow into colon and rectal cancers. In another study, patients who took 1450 mg of calcium and 1100 IU of vitamin D had a 77% lower overall cancer rate than those taking placebo. So it seems that this combination may be good for more than just colon cancer.




#5 Drink Your Coffee

Here's an easy rule for many of us to follow: a recent study by the American Cancer Society shows a link between coffee consumption and a lowered risk of death from mouth and throat cancers.
The study revealed a 49% lower risk of cancer death from oral and pharyngeal cancer for those who drank four or more cups of coffee each day. This result wasn't found in those who drank tea or decaffeinated coffee. Still, most at risk for these types of cancer are those who regularly consume alcohol and tobacco.




#6 Drink Plenty of Water

Drinking around 8 or more cups of clean water per day will not only keep you hydrated; it dilutes the toxins in your urine and flushes them out, helping to prevent bladder cancer.
It's important to filter your water if you're going to be drinking out of the tap. Tap water often contains traces of toxins such as arsenic and chlorine, which are carcinogenic according to the National Center for Biotechnology Information. Bottled water usually isn't much better: many bottled water brands are simply tap water that's shipped across the country in plastic containers, which can leach even more chemicals into the water.




#7 Avoid Herbicides

Some herbicides are linked to a variety of cancers, so it's a pretty good idea to avoid them. If you have some unwanted weeds in your garden, you may just want to put on those gloves and do the dirty work.
If you do need to use herbicides in your garden, it's recommended that you use a respirator. They should also never be sprayed on or near an area where food is being grown.




#8 Avoid Alcohol

The US Department of Health and Human Services categorizes the consumption of alcohol as a carcinogen. The more alcohol you consume, the higher your risk of developing colon, rectal, oral, stomach, esophagus, voice box, throat, breast and liver cancers. In 2009, roughly 3.5% of cancer deaths were linked to alcohol.
When your body metabolizes alcohol, it turns it into a toxic chemical called acetaldehyde (which is also partially responsible for hangovers). If you're going to drink, it's best to limit your consumption to 1 drink per day for women and 2 drinks per day for men. This discrepancy is due to the fact that men tend to metabolize alcohol more quickly than women.





#9 Avoid Air Pollution

While not exactly an option for everyone, living in an area that's less polluted can have profound positive effects on one's health. Two new studies out of the UK show that high levels of traffic exhaust and industrial pollution are linked to higher probability of lung cancer as well as heart failure.
The Danish Cancer Society Research Center states that even low levels of air pollution can cause lung cancer in people who've been exposed over a long period of time. For those living in large cities, there appear to be few options other than staying indoors with the windows closed.




#10 Eat More Nuts

A study in Spain has shown that low-fat diets that are higher in the consumption of nuts were connected to a 40% decrease in the chances of developing terminal cancer. Walnuts, in fact, are believed to decrease cancer risk by as much as 45%.
Scientists still aren't sure as to how nuts are able to protect against cancer, nor do they understand why walnuts appear to be more protective than other nuts. Other studies show that selenium, which is found in high concentrations in Brazil nuts, helps to destroy cancer cells and repair DNA. Organic chemistry aside, it still looks like eating more of these tasty snacks can pretty good for your health.




#11 Keep a Regular Sleep Schedule

Women who have trouble sleeping have long been known to be at higher risk of developing breast cancer. And, more recently, studies have shown that irregular sleep patterns are linked with increased chances of prostate cancer in men.
A study conducted at the University of Iceland in Reykjavik showed that over five years' time, men who had trouble sleeping were around twice as likely to be stricken with prostate cancer. Men who showed signs of "very severe" sleep problems were more than three times as likely to be stricken with advanced prostate cancer.




#12 Exercise Regularly

The National Cancer Institute claims that regular physical activity can greatly reduce the risk of several forms of cancer. In addition, studies show that survivors of breast and colon cancer are less likely to experience a recurrence of the disease if they continue to exercise during and after treatment.
The Centers for Disease Control recommends adults engage in at least 30 minutes of moderate exercise, five days a week. People can also participate in 20 minutes of high-intensity activity 3 days a week for similar health benefits. Going beyond those goals, of course, can't hurt either.




#13 Eat Organic

According to a 2010 report from the President's Cancer Panel, eating foods that have been grown without pesticides, fertilizers, or hormones can reduce the risk of cancer.They also caution against drinking water from bottles that contain BPA, and heating plastic food containers.
Studies show that about half of all synthetic pesticides are carcinogenic, and these chemicals leave a residue on food that can then be ingested. Foods that have been grown organically, however, may still harbor some residue, so it's important to wash all of your fruits and vegetables before preparing them.



#14 Eat More Fruits and Veggies

Studies have consistently shown that eating fruits and vegetables on a regular basis can help protect against many types of cancer. As it turns out, different fruits and vegetables can have protective effects on different sorts of cancer.
Tomatoes, for example, have been shown to reduce the risk of prostate cancer in men, according to Harvard School of Public Health. They also state that fruits can protect against mouth, throat, stomach and esophageal cancers, and possibly even against lung cancer.


#15 Reducing the Risk of Cancer

There's no surefire way to prevent cancer; and if you're concerned about your own cancer risks, it's important to talk to your doctor. Still, there are plenty of steps you can take to lower your risks of having a battle with Big C. Here are a few of them...